Cordova's hooks are a bit confusing at the best of times, and the documentation isn't the most straightforward explanation either, so to try and clarify this I've listed each command and the hooks that run with it below.

Hooks generally run before or after a Cordova CLI command is executed but, some CLI commands will execute other commands within themselves, leading to multiple hooks being called, sometimes confusingly.

If something seems to be missing, all I can say is this is how it was working with Cordova Cli v10.0.0.

Command Hooks Comments
cordova prepare before_prepare
after_prepare
cordova compile before_compile
after_compile
cordova build before_build
before_prepare
after_prepare
before_compile
after_compile
after_build 		Shorthand for cordova prepare and cordova compile
cordova run before_run
before_prepare
after_prepare
before_deploy
after_run 		Also runs cordova prepare
cordova serve before_serve
before_prepare
after_prepare
after_serve 		Also runs cordova prepare
cordova clean before_clean
after_clean
cordova emulate before_emulate
before_prepare
after_prepare
before_deploy
after_emulate 		Also runs cordova prepare
cordova platform add before_platform_add
after_platform_add
cordova platform ls before_platform_ls
after_platform_ls
cordova platform rm before_platform_rm
after_platform_rm
cordova plugin add before_platform_add
after_platform_add
cordova plugin ls before_platform_ls
after_platform_ls
cordova plugin rm before_plugin_rm
before_plugin_uninstall
after_plugin_rm